um unless it was agreed upon by both parties that you would be a stay at home mom, you shouldn't expect a free ride. Ever thought that maybe your husband might want a damn break too? I read your other question. To me it sounds like you are using every excuse to not work. I lost one child to being still born, and one in the 2nd semester. I still work, and find every chance I can get to contribute to our family. Yes it's fine to be a stay at home mother. But what your doin is whining cuz you husband wants you to get off your @ss and be a person again. Yes you have the right to grieve. But if it's starting to affect your relationship, that wake up lady, get help.
as for him not wanting to talk about the stillborn, you do realize most men wont talk about such problems, for a few reasons, one cuz they know nothing about such things and how to deal with them, and 2 cuz they dont know how to process their pain, and yours. grieving takes time. If you been depressed for a year, and still cant function right, you seriously need help.
Ok, I just finished the rest of your lil story. To me, you sound like a spoiled lil princess. You have a degree but dont like the field. seriously, in this day of age, one is damn lucky to be working at what they love. Get a job, and help your man pay the bills. Your husband is the one that is being used here.
working mom, and still grieves for our lost babies, I can still function, and dammit my hubby still loves me.