How do I get the remove red dye which has bled onto other clothes?

I used Rit Color Remover and that was a complete disaster - it actually took the color out of the blue clothes and left all the red in. Completely worthless and expensive effort. I've had other instances of red color bleed and bleach has never worked for me. I do not ever dry the damaged clothes before trying to... show more I used Rit Color Remover and that was a complete disaster - it actually took the color out of the blue clothes and left all the red in. Completely worthless and expensive effort. I've had other instances of red color bleed and bleach has never worked for me. I do not ever dry the damaged clothes before trying to get the red out. This last batch was washed several times as well as using color remover.
My husband said to just write it all off and that's probably good advice.
Please don't answer to tell me to use bleach or Rit anything.
Thanks!
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