What do I do and what do I optionally say?
Since we used to hug alot until then, I don't hug him anymore because I don't want him thinking I'll kiss him again. I don't want to kiss him and he likes to give me side hugs which is fine. So when I do want to give him a real hug do I tell him "I promise I won't do anything weird" or "Don't worry I won't kiss you" (the time I kissed him he left for a mission for two years and he;s back).
I don't want to kiss him again because it would feel like I'd be violating him.