Hmmmmmmmm. I guess this one of those situations where you know how you should feel and why but don't then? I know about that, trust me. Emotions can be veeeeeeeeeeeeery annoying things. I've been in situations that are definitely much different to yours but similar in the sense that you say things to yourself, knowing they're true but just can't seem to actually believe them. And you know what always causes them? GIRLS! They screw with our minds! lol! Seriously, when you like a girl your mind goes into overdrive and the parts controlling emotions and logic suddenly separate and start fighting with each other. You're not a loser, and what you did what was probably a lot better than anything those useless sports guys could ever do for a girl. And yet even if you say this to yourself you'll still probably look back and be all worried and confused and angry over doing it. Why? Cause it was for a girl you liked and it failed. Your logic says "it made sense" and your emotions say "you need her, you went for her, you don't have her, therefore it was bad", which is WRONG. So how to stop it? God I wish I knew, lol. Well I think the quicker you get over her the quicker you'll forget this whole situation. And accepting that you can't get her isn't getting over her btw, they are VERY different things. I suppose when jokes are made just laugh them off and don't react to them. People will get bored eventually and you'll just need to get over it yourself. Every time you feel bad about it perhaps you should just remember all the things that were said about it being sweet and all. If you can look back and think "I wanted her to like it and she did", maybe you'll start realising that it wasn't a bad idea after all. Has anything bad come about because of it? Does the girl think you're a weirdo? No, she thinks you're sweet. You just need to come to terms with the fact that there aren't any problems as a result of it (apart from some jokes and seriously? who doesn't get teased by their friends over little things every now and then?) and because of that there's no reason not to forget it and move on.