Why do blacks make a big deal about the word n****r?

why is it that they are trying to banned the word ni**er. but blacks can still you that word. like when somebody calls them that they make such a big deal like its offensive or something. im mexican && when people call me we**ack or border jumper its not a big deal. but when someone out of their black race calls... show more why is it that they are trying to banned the word ni**er. but blacks can still you that word. like when somebody calls them that they make such a big deal like its offensive or something. im mexican && when people call me we**ack or border jumper its not a big deal. but when someone out of their black race calls them a ni**** they blow it all out of porportion yet its alright for them to go around calling themselves ni**** && its alright for them to call a mexican a wet***k or a border jumper or even a white person a cracker or say something like white boy. yet when people outside of their race says the word ni**** they get soo offensive? so why is that?
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