what is the deal?

I am ok with my man going out riding on his bike EVERY once a week, for bike night. When I explained to him that I would like to go out every once a week as well, he tells me, NO!!!! I dont get it!!!!!! It's not fair! Why should he have the freedom to go out once a week, and when I try to do the same thing he says no.

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  • angela
    Lv 4
    1 decade ago
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    ummm....why do you let a man tell you NO? he's not your father right? it works both ways---you should both have your nights apart---why not? that so wouldn't work for me--how is that fair?

  • 1 decade ago

    yeah, a big BS! Tell him you're going out for a nice run around the block but instead do the following..

    1: run to the airport

    2: buy a ticket; destination: Cancun

    3: dance with a guy named Javier who has eyes like an angel

    4: break up with your man and find someone who isnt insecure..

    ps. or you can just go with number 4

  • 1 decade ago

    Sounds like hes insecure. Go for someone whos a little more confident in himself. He shouldn't have power over you and if he can't handle you going out once a week than he has issues.

    Find someone whos a little more comfortable with himself.

  • 1 decade ago

    i dun think its fair 4 him 2 do dat 2 u.. mybe u guys shud hav a slow talk bout dis..

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  • 1 decade ago

    you should go out anyway if he can go out then you can go out to i mean i dont see why he can go out and you cant he probably just dont ant you to tak to a other guy...like me i am a big flirt but just talk to him and let him no that u are going out...

  • 1 decade ago

    his probably insecure or his jealous.his worried you go out you might meet someone else.it can be a control thing.

  • 1 decade ago

    ummm he doesn't wait no, hmmmm, he does wait noooo, hes a freak about being controlling everything so i would NOT stay w/him if you want to ever be free again.

  • 1 decade ago

    Possessive control freak , run don't walk from this one...

  • shark
    Lv 4
    1 decade ago

    he is just jealous

  • 1 decade ago

    he doesnt...... u need to change that...

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