How long after divorce is best to start dating again?

I starting dating immediately after my divorce and my first boyfriend broke up with me 3 weeks ago. I was devastated. I missed him more than my ex husband. I told myself I would wait to start dating again but now I have been asked out for a lunch date this weekend. Of course I said yes but now I'm... show more I starting dating immediately after my divorce and my first boyfriend broke up with me 3 weeks ago. I was devastated. I missed him more than my ex husband. I told myself I would wait to start dating again but now I have been asked out for a lunch date this weekend. Of course I said yes but now I'm terrified. Why am I so afraid of dating? I'm in my 40's. I was NEVER afraid of dating in my 20's. Could it be it is too soon after my divorce to date again? It was final Feb 2008.
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