This "question" is ridiculous, and no, I do not agree. Suffering is suffering.
Someone asked, "how many men get raped a year in the US" or something along those lines. Well...if we factor in prison, I'd have to say a hell of a lot more men get raped than do women--men who may actually be innocent. There are many, many cases in which men in prison have been proven to be innocent through DNA evidence, but their lives are ruined because of their prison experiences. I suggest to the person who made that statement that you re-think what you're talking about. Some of those men in prison are there because of FALSE accusations of rape--is their being raped in prison okay because it's only "bad" people in there? I think not.