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If you suspect your sister in law is cheating do you tell your brother? Tell her you know? What?

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  • 1 decade ago
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    Good Luck I tried to tell my brother everything that his wife was doing and it back fired on me. My brother was so very upset with me I mean he took her side and believed everything she said. For about 6-8 months my brother literally hatted me and it was very hard considering how close we were. but not to long he saw everything for himself and did not know how to say he was sorry. I forgave him in a heart beat because we are brother and sister but what I guess I am trying to tell you is that love is blind. If you are sure that it is true the way I did than go for it but if not be careful.

    • Denon5 years agoReport

      "love is blind" True that. And it is hard to get rid of it.

  • D D
    Lv 5
    1 decade ago

    If these are just suspicions then stay out of it.

    If you know 100% for sure that she is cheating (in other words you have absolute proof), then tell your brother. If he finds out later that she was cheating and that you knew and did not tell him then he may be very angry with you as well.

  • Anonymous
    1 decade ago

    I say get proof before you tell anyone, and do not let her know that you think she is cheating. What is she doing that has made you suspect?

  • Lori
    Lv 4
    4 years ago

    sometimes YES sometimes NO. Pregnancy signs are the same as signs of a period coming so sometimes it's very hard to tell. tHE VERY BEST way to know is to wait till a period is late and do a hometest. I was 7 weeks before i found out with my daughter I NEVER felt sick pregnant sore boobs ANY SIGNS of pregnancy but, a + test. With this pregnancy before my period was due i felt hot, irriated, crampy, sore boobs, everything smelled terrible. All pregnancy are differnt even if a women is having no signs and a period is late it's best to test.

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  • Anonymous
    1 decade ago

    If you have concrete proof - then yes, I would tell your brother. He's your brother - he's family. Would you want him to do the same if your significant other was messing around?? I would.

  • 5 years ago

    I she IS cheating then tell him it may cause him grief but later on he'll be happy

  • Anonymous
    1 decade ago

    Don't say anything without proof. If anything ask your brother if they are okay. Don't accuse unless you know- it will cause you hoards of problems with everyone in your family.

  • Anonymous
    1 decade ago

    well if you knew for a fact then i would but since you only suspect i wouldnt say anything yet

  • 1 decade ago

    You need proof before you accuse her. Otherwise you could really hurt their marriage if it's untrue.

  • 1 decade ago

    oh hell yeah, after I kick her butt I'll tell my brother..

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