How can I make my theme less overwhelming?

I've had a few posts up already trying to pick out the colors for my theme. - It's going to be a goddess theme. I will be wearing a white flowing goddess style dress and my colors will be either white, gold, and dark red OR white, gold and peach. My fiance's favorite flower is the casablanca lily. I... show more I've had a few posts up already trying to pick out the colors for my theme. - It's going to be a goddess theme. I will be wearing a white flowing goddess style dress and my colors will be either white, gold, and dark red OR white, gold and peach. My fiance's favorite flower is the casablanca lily. I looked up what the meaning is for the lily and it was,

"majesty, it's heavenly to be with you. The white lily is linked to Juno, the queen of the gods in Roman mythology, by the story that while nursing her son Hercules, some excess milk fell from the sky creating the group of stars we call the Milky Way, and lilies were created from what milk fell to the earth."

I thought that the goddess Juno could somehow tie into my theme. So I researched what her symbols were. One of which is the peacock. (Should I perhaps try gold with an aqua and amethyst?)
Update: I don't want this theme to overtake my wedding, but I do think that if I could somehow incorporate it all together it would really be beautiful. Any suggestions on how I could keep this simple, yet elegant?
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