Your question is based upon a false dichotomy.
That being, 'why does god hate me, if he made me gay'?
Let us use your reasoning, and logic, to expand on the concept of 'god made me gay'....
If god made you gay, then,
god made every conduct.
Thusly, god made people, rapists,....
god made people, murderers,
god made people, liars....
god made people gay haters...
can you see any flaw at all in your false logic?
I personally, think that you have every right to pursue your desires (under the current system) BUT!...
You have no right to infringe upon the rights of those whom god made to be child molesters, torturers, drug users, liars, adulterers, murderers, animal abusers, etc.
For, if you were MADE GAY, then by your logic, all behavior should go unpunished and unfrowned upon, because, god made everyone, the way they are....?
If not, then you were not made gay by god.
So then, if god made you gay, then why do you hate those god made to hate gays?