Maybe its nothing. When you say property, it makes me think you live a ways out, and you have alot of property, that you cant always see from you house. Like in the country, is that right? If thats it, it might be just kids, sneaking onto your property, They might not be doing drugs, just smoking and using matches. If you have kids, i might think the same. Im sitting here thinking back to my "yay, lets do drugs and party all night days" (and believe me, there were alot of those days) And the only reason i could think for those small little toothpicks or matches that could be drug related would be someone cleaning out their pipe or one hitter. But if you're finding them all over your property, I doubt people are sneaking over there to have a pipe cleaning party! When you say you keep finding them. How many have you found. Even if they are not related to drug use, i understand how disturbing it must be to keep finding things on your property you know couldn't have gotten there by themselves. Look around for cigarette butts, or if you do live out in the country, and if you property is quite large, put up a gate with a "no trasspassing" sign. I'd really like to know if anyone else who reads this comes up with another use for those toothpicks that's drug related. I am racking my brain and thats all i'm getting. Good luck to you, really!
Wow! well, i dont know about the crack thing, but i does make sense. I've smoked pot out of pipes that had screens in them. But what your describing doesnt sound familiar, unless he's making his own pipes, which would make sense and go with what the above metioned. about it being cheap. So, it could be just pot, or it could be alot worse. But i would definately not discount what the other guy said. If theres a way to do a certain drug, its pretty much universal. One person isnt gonna do it different from everybody else. So, if he says that is a cheap way to do crack, i believe it. But i wouldnt freak out yet. Make sure you stay calm until you have hard proof. If you go in half crazy (im not saying you would, but I might!) with accusations and nothing else, Then all youve done is buy him some time to hide the proof. If your son in law lives with you then im assuming your daughter does, and quite possibly their son/daughter. Take crack very seriously. Your are a mother, God blessed you with the gifts of spying, snooping, super hearing, and over analyzing the smallest of things. Girl, take those gifts, find those drugs. Im thinking dont look in thier room. he's probaby hiding it somewhere else. where do you find most of those sticks. Where do you go the least in the house, is it the shed. is it really cluttered in there. The obvious place to look would be his underwrear drawer, but that's like where you put it when you dont have to hide it. Check in the air vents. check in the shed, in small cans. It might be hard to catch him if its crack because he probably does it all as soon as he gets his hands on it. but anything else might very well be hidden. Do you know someone who used to do drugs you can trust. If you find a pipe again, you can tell what is was used for. they should have some residue left. But if all this doesnt work and you are positive he's on something, and worried about your other loved ones, you could always demand a drug test, but that never goes over well. Good luck to you really. I hope it all works out.