My wife and I right now are in a sexual slump. We don't do it half as often as we used to, maybe once a month or less for the past 10 months. It kills me sometimes!! But you know what? we have a so much other good things a bout us that I know it's going to turn around once we get through our little rough patch.
My X wife and I had sex quite a bit. But She made me down right miserable. I couldnt' stand our relationship anymore, nor could I stand her.
So yeah sex isn't eveything but you can still put up with it, if you have the right person and you Know that it's not something that is going to last forever.
My X wife and could have sex forever, but I'd rather NOT have sex and live with a good woman than have sex a lot and have to live with an unspoortive, manipulative, lazy, b*tch all the time!