From what I know (friends and acquaintances), many guys out there want to just get in girl's pants and enjoy the time flirting with them... with little hope to develop much more. These usually tend to be the guys that tell you that you are "hott" and "sexy" and put higher priority on flirting than getting to know you well..etc.
The only guys that are worth being with are the guys that you never originally planned on dating, but instead, guys who you thought you'd like to know better.
Guys who you gain a relationship with AFTER knowing them tend to be guys who will truly love you and truly want you.
Many people, including myself, lose respect for girls when they give up their virginity to a guy without being sure that they will marrying him.
What i recommend is for you to keep away from sex until you are married or until you meet someone that you can definitely expect to want to marry you. Your virginity is valuable and any guy that calls you "prude" or anything similar is brainwashed by this corrupt MTV idolizing world.
Imagine this, If you were a guy about to marry a girl, would you not WISH that you were the first person she had sex with?
Save it for someone who you will spend the rest of your life with, and not someone who can do nothing more than show you a "good time."
· 1 decade ago