I have been straight for 22 years, until I met the most amazing women. From the minute I was introduced to her I felt this spark and knew that there was something between us. Over the next week I could not stop thinking about her and the next time I saw her I told her how I felt right at the end of the night after trying to get her attention to see if she liked me or not. I think I shocked her a bit (seeing as I was a straight girl), however, we went out again he following evening with lots of people, and we had a drunken talk about whether I actually felt how I did or whether it was just being around the gay scene. I knew exactly how I felt and we ended up sleeping in the same bed that night and sharing the most amazing kiss... since then I have been hooked on this woman and we are now together. I have never been in love with a guy and I've always found sex uncomfortable and painful, but not with my girlfriend. I've never really had tendencies for other women and I don't think I will ever feel the same attraction for another woman. A ll I know is that I was straight, but now I have fallen in love with the most amazing woman ever and I am proud to be her girlfriend. I can't see myself wanting to be with anyone else.
So I don't reckon you are born gay/straight/bi - I think things can change over the years and you just end up with someone that makes you feel safe, wanted and most of all happy.