Well I do date an Asian girl and shes not my first though Ive also dated White, black, and mixed women.
Theresa few things going on there for me.
Some of them, not all of course (Im not infatuated with Asian-ness), are just really beautiful. I love the "softness" of Asian women's features, ie, not as harsh of bone structure as a lot of caucasion women.
In fact next to a pretty Asian girl a typical Caucasion girl's features can be downright masculine. strong brow, pointed nose etc etc. The bone structure on asiatic faces is more softened in that the projections don't have as hard of angles and don't protude as far. Its like an exageration of what is typically seen from a white perspective of the differences between masculine and feminine faces. I think in part this is also what makes some whites view Asian men as effeminate.
Their slender bodies and the fact that on average they never get as obese as a lot of American women are getting recently makes them quite attractive in comparison.
My girlfriend could NEVER be considered subserviant and I find that offensive when people suggest I just want that in a woman. What fun would a girl who didn't have some spunk be? But they, the ones I meet IN China that is have something about them that women in the States who are all women's libb blah blah tough girl etc have lost. They figured out how to be strong and confident women without acting like men. They have not traded femininity for equality. They seem to find their equallity but still have those traits that make them really come across as beautiful, desirable women.
AND they dont seem to be so spoiled. I read somewhere that in the USA a girl, when she is very young gets value in her family just for being. She is special just because shes the girl. This leads directly to a sense of entitlement and "princess" syndrome. Chinese girls are not the ones their family really wanted, they prolly wanted a boy and the girls value in her families eyes comes from her being a contribute\ing member of the family. Does she help around the house etc? This is how boys in America get treated growing up and it means we feel better about the way a Chinese girl acts in a relationship. Typically from my perspective anyway it means there are less of them that are REALLY bitchy or high maintenance, something the avg American guy gets stuck with prety often but WE HATE!!!!!
On top of that Asian girls skin is not so different from our own as say black girls' and Asian girls' hair is again not so differnt from our own either but all the same there is a definite sense of the exotic which is almost always an attraction factor. Exotic looks but not so different as to seem to be a problem from a social stand point.
And finally I have been traveling around the world with my family and then for work since I was a child and I have always been attracted to or interested in people from different cultures. I enjoy learning about new things from my friends who are form different places. I Love learning new languages and trying different foods etc.
So if a girl is beautiful to begin with, very feminine, speaks a different language that she can help me learn (as long as we can still communicate, even if its a bit challenging) isn't high maintanance, knows things I don't know or can take me to cool new restrnts to try things Ive never eaten, then I am going to be SOOOO attracted to all of that and if by some chance she rides her own motorcycle then she just hit every single fantasy on my entire list (ok there is ONE more, if she doesn't mind givin me a good spankin when Ive been a bad boy!)
Really I just love women, but Asian women get a couple of extra points thrown in there, and I am currently head over heels for my current Chinese GF. Shes beautiful, fun and she treats me right!