Hoboken 1, seems to me that your ex is taking it very hard, even though you're no longer together, guess what, You all are still a family till the end. Something huh! This is why God Hates a divorcing. It's true! However, it's done, It could also be that the five year old is taking it harder, He loves both mommy and daddy, let's say you all are affected by this. I say, Go take your family out to dinner even if it' Mcdonalds or whatever. talk to the boys on a regular and please be friends if not best friend with their mother, keep the communication line open forever because you both have beautiful sons who adore the both of you. REMEBER you're still a family, just live here and there but when it's time to come together, BRING IT ON! Try to hold the fam. together, you created it with the help of your former wife the MOTHER of you children, continue to love her for that! My sincere wishes goes out to you, IT WILL BE FINE,Msdeedee said it best. Oh yeah Best wishes on the custody BATTLE share it. The boys need both parents.
What does God have to do with it? He is the one who started the institution of the marriage bond between the first pair, Adam and Eve. He can tell you how to hold it down. Just Trust Him.