Add the ex or choose silence?

SO I have this ex, to put it simply he was a totally Ahole, and go figure he wants to me to add him to my friends on a certian site. After idk how long of not even acknowloging each other's existance. His message was "You going to add me? If not just send me a message saying so, eh? Johnny Depp's Gay!!! Just kidding! Not!" He's immature and he used to always twist my words to were I felt I was a moron. I want to be adult about this but I also...I don't want to seem weak. I feel I cant just ignore this, but another half of me is saying to delte the damn message and say it never happened...it feels like its a win no matter what for him...please help.

Update:

ok so u all say like delte him but then do I still write the message to him telling him no?...

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  • 1 decade ago
    Best Answer

    If I was you I'd delete his message. Then I would totally leave it-don't even write a no message back to him. If he sends you more messages, write back. Tell him that you are completely over him and not interested in being friends, and that he should grow up. It's very hard to twist words aorund and make someone feel like a moron if they are too adult.

    Just remember to keep your head and not to let him get under his skin. That's what he seems to want.

  • 3 years ago

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  • agnusr
    Lv 4
    1 decade ago

    Delete the message.

    Reject the Friend Request

    If he sends another message, Block him.

    Problem solved and out of mind in under 30 seconds!

  • 1 decade ago

    Tough one... Do you talk to him outside of this certain website? If not, then don't add him. If so, then add him. Don't forget, you can always delete him if he starts acting like an a**hole again. Hope this helps.

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  • Anonymous
    1 decade ago

    Since you said he was an A hole i defintly wouldn't add him. Leave him to the birds

  • J K
    Lv 4
    1 decade ago

    well you could try adding and see where that takes you. what's the worst that could happen? if it starts to bother you then you can always remove him later. :)

  • 1 decade ago

    get rid of him and move on he sounds like an a$$

  • D.
    Lv 4
    1 decade ago

    I'd just ignore him. If he persists, tell him "No, I'm not going to add you. I do not want to be friends, please leave me alone"

  • ghds
    Lv 4
    1 decade ago

    Delete him and don't have anything to do with him.

  • 1 decade ago

    ignore him....its gonna be better for u

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