If you are 34 and he is 41 don't you think it is a little late in life to be playing games? First, if he said he would call this weekend and has given you no reason or indication that he wouldn't call, don't worry about it, especially if he has already called you twice this week. Secondly, it's your own inner voice telling you the things you have listed probably left over from past relationships. I believe the worse thing anyone can do is play games in any kind of relationship. If you are not by the phone and you have an answering machine, he can leave a message and you can call him back. No reason for you not to enjoy your weekend is there? Lastly, yes it is childish to act surprised when you receive the phone call. Nothing wrong with being happy, but don't act phony ...that's still playing games. Leave your old baggage behind. If you have expectations about this relationship and aren't sure if he is on the same page, ask him what he believes the relationship to be. After all, you are both grown ups aren't' you? Best of luck!!