Ideas for planning an atheist funeral?

I just came from a memorial service for a christian friend. While I was there, it dawned on me that the party I had planned for my own atheist funeral (hopefully many years from now...) would probably just be upsetting to many believer friends and family. Especially my LDS family... What ideas do you have for... show more I just came from a memorial service for a christian friend. While I was there, it dawned on me that the party I had planned for my own atheist funeral (hopefully many years from now...) would probably just be upsetting to many believer friends and family. Especially my LDS family...

What ideas do you have for a more conventional, but still atheist, funeral?
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