Wow...enable me initiate off asserting that your mom does not hate you, and that i do no longer think of you hate your mom. She loves you, She in simple terms has a hard way of exhibiting it. confident she is probable dealing with menopause via temper-swings, appears like one 2d she's crying and the subsequent she's insulting and giggling at you. you're able to sit down and function a a million on a million communicate along with her tell her that the insults is hurting you and he or she could end in the previous issues get worst. tell her which you have low vanity and you seeing a therapist approximately it. possibly you may persuade her to work out a therapist too. i think of the issue is her new boyfriend, because of the fact appears like he do no longer do no longer something for her, thats why she so based on you to do issues for her. Her new boyfriend needs to get out of you and your mom's lives ASAP. possibly her new boyfriend is abusive, 2 signs and indicators which you advised me is that she that treats you like crap and the temper swings. What i want to propose on your mom is help, the two a therapist or a psychologist. additionally tell your mom that as quickly as you marry your boyfriend that she heavily isn't disregarded. no count what she says or do to you she nevertheless your mom, and a mom and infant courting is actual unconditional love. tell her which you adore her now and lower back. One final element if the insults proceed spend extra time with your boyfriend appears like he make you happy.