i am 5 foot 3. i have gone out with guys from my height to six foot 3 or 4. i recently fell totally for a guy my height, but didn't even think about how tall his was 'til we were involved and had known each other for quite some time. not only that but he had women after him, his friends would call him up trying to fix him up with their women friends. he was very personable, confidant. had not even a high school diploma, but had an innate intelligence, was a real hard-worker and an excellent organizer and eventually by his mid-thirties, did very for himself. now he's committed to doing charity work and still has to keep fending the women off. he's ok looking, but it's more that he keeps in ok, natural shape and has a relaxed manner that's attractive. he's generous in a simple, kind way and fun to hang out with and very caring. also, when i met him, a tall handsome guy was courting me, but couldn't hold a candle to shorty. i know 5 three is more than 4 eleven, but there are many women smaller than me, many women of latin or meditaranian or asian origin who are also looking for a man. this is no more excuse for using drugs and being homeless than being too old, too young, having an ugly nose or whatever. many many people have all sorts of challenges. the drug use sounds like it has a nother cause and he needs to deal with that, maybe in rehab.