Smoking weed and drinkin a lot at 14?

my boyfriend is 14 and his brother died about 4 years ago and his mum died 6 months ago. After his brother died, his dad started drinkin all the time and beats him up. Since his mum died hes been smoking weed a lot and drinking. I want to help him but when he told me about his dad beating him up he told me not to... show more my boyfriend is 14 and his brother died about 4 years ago and his mum died 6 months ago. After his brother died, his dad started drinkin all the time and beats him up. Since his mum died hes been smoking weed a lot and drinking. I want to help him but when he told me about his dad beating him up he told me not to tell anyone. I was at his house the other day and his dad didnt know i was there and his dad started punching him in the face it was awful and i didnt know what to do. how can i help him?
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