Sometimes, when I see a woman with overwhelming beauty, I will approach and say "Excuse me, Ma'am. I am delightfully married, so this is not a come-on, but I could not help but note that you are absolutely .... stunningly .... beautiful! Sometimes it just needs to be said." Such a gift is a terrible, even a powerful thing. It carries a responsibility to use it for good; not for selfish purposes, not to destroy other women or men with it, but to live as a worthy steward and develop a life of kindness beyond your present bounds. Few women ever will. And it is so often gone, so quickly!