If I look at gay porn does that make me gay?
Ok, so i love girls and boobs, ive had girlfriends, but once in a while, i look at gay porn (guy on guy) and i get erect, does that make me gay/bi?
- Anonymous1 decade agoFavorite Answer
No, watching gay porn doesn't make you gay or bisexual. It only means that your interested in that type of porn. And if you enjoy watching it, I don't see any problems with doing it.
People get stuck on titles such as "straight", "gay", and "bi" way to much. If you were gay, then you would be attracted to men not girls and boobs like you said. Sexual orientation is about attraction and long-term connection, not about whether you get an erection.
Chances are that you're straight, but just curious. Watching gay porn does not classify a man as gay or bi, but rather that he's open-minded and comfortable enough to explore his sexual boundaries.
- dartagnon pLv 61 decade ago
You might be bi ... or str8 ... or you might just be YOU. Pictures are one thing but it might be a sign. But the only way to find out is to find someone you like, as a friend, and then maybe experiment. You will have to be open minded and see if your body AND mind AND soul ALL agree that making it with a dude is cool or not.
A lot of times we meet "special" souls. People from past lives or whatever but people who we REALLY have a strong feeling toward and oftentimes that results in a physical relationship. Maybe it's unique ... maybe it doesn't always happen ... maybe it doesn't matter as long as YOU are OK with it.
Be safe ... be protected ... but if you really like someone I wouldn't let sexuality enter into it. Just be yourself. God made you who YOU are and made you the WAY you are so YOUR job is to be yourself and be the best loving, kind, caring person you can be and if being with someone of the same sex makes you feel comfortable then it doesn't matter what other people think. Just don't let your boss at work know unless you are SURE that he is open minded and cool and gay friendly. Choose carefully those to whom you come out. Some people will try to get you to come out just so that they can bash you or do some evil thing toward you. Don't trust everyone but you can use your gay-dar to tell you who is cool and who is not. Unless u r gaydar deprived which probably means that you may not be gay or your gaydar just sucks big time.
I think you can paint yourself into a very boring corner and sometimes variety is the spice of life ... but perhaps not for everyone ... so go out and find out if it is for you and if not don't worry about it ... just be yourself.
- LizbizLv 51 decade ago
No! Maybe you find this erotic. But it doesn't mean you want to have sex with a male or anyone else. Think about why you like this and then relax. Maybe you, like all those who find porn erotic, just like porn. After all, you know its fake and therefore unrealistic. But if you want these things with the woman you love then good luck. I will bet you a million she would wish you to have gotten over that part of your life before you marry. And then enjoy being with someone you love and trust.
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- Anonymous1 decade ago
No. That makes you normal.
You probable watch gay porn to compare with other men.
Or, your very shy and insecure about the size style your using, so you dont like seeing wimen whilst playing. Your probible straighter than most straight guys.
- 1 decade ago
Of course not. Porn is porn, sex turns guys on regardless. Well, that isn't true for small minded men...or small packaged men, but for the secure men then it just means "Hey, I watch porn and get hard." That's all.
- Anonymous6 years ago
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- 1 decade ago
it makes u slightly bi or jus plain confused but deffo not gay, cos why would u want to be watchin gay porn if u r straight
- JLv 61 decade ago
possibly BI but you could just be experimenting/curious.
- 1 decade ago
Not neccessarily but it makes you bi curious.