I read your questions. She's right to be upset. I'd be pretty disappointed and angry if I found out my husband felt that way about me, too. You're either going to wind up divorced or have to go miles out of your way to prove to her that you do love her and respect her. Upon reading your questions, you sound like a self-centered, chauvinistic, arrogant, disrespectful schmuck. If that's not what you really are, you have a lot of kissing up to do.