I, too, believe that women have a right to be promiscuous....if it's ok for guys, then it should be ok for us girls. I was raised that I should wait for marriage (didn't) and you would not believe the crap I get when others find out that I'm not raising my daughters that way.....why can't they discover what they like in a man sexually? MANY men in the 1950's had mistresses' on the side...most who had virgins for wives. Of course, I don't want my daughters to have sex until they are old enough to understand all that comes with it, but I REFUSE to teach them to wait for marriage. As long as they use condoms...it's their body and their choices to make. When they are ready for marriage, they need to be sure that they'll be satisfied in EVERY way.
SOME Men make remarks about promiscuous women because they hate the thought of being compared to anyone else & feeling like they might not "measure up"...it's all about insecurity for them. SOME Women who make remarks about promiscuous women are just jealous. No matter what they claim on the outside, inside they are seething with jealousy...especially the ones that waited for marriage and are stuck with some man that turned out to be a poor lover...even by inexperienced standards.
Khankrum...How in the world does being promiscuous determine your motherly/wifely abilities? I would imagine a promiscious women would make a much better wife once she decides to settle down with one man...she'll have no regrets, no desire to experience anything else, for she already has, and the one man she does decide to marry should be proud that of all the men she has been with, she chose HIM to be faithful to? I think it's the women who didn't have more than one lover before marriage are the ones more likely to cheat. Also, being a good mother doesn't require that you have had only one lover either...in fact, I know PLENTY of women who "played the field" when they were younger, only to settle down and become top-notch mothers and wives. A woman's sexuality has NOTHING to do with how well a mother she'd make. I'm sorry, but your logic is closed-minded. Too bad closed minds don't come with closed mouths.
Live and Let Live!
BTW, isn't it that men always said "Why buy the cow when you could get the milk for free?" Now the women are saying "Why buy the whole pig when you can get the sausage for free?"