Im a dad of 4 boys from 11 to 23. We are so incredibly close, best friends, loving and caring for each other. Ive taught the older ones how to properly wear a jock strap, put ice on their testicles after a ball hit them, put suppositories up their bottoms when they have eaten too much junk food, and taken a sick one in the shower with me when he was feverish or felt sick. Likewise the boys take care of each other and see each others private parts regularly. I asked them once, if they were comfortable with their penises being seen by all the others, and they all said, heck dad, we all have fingers too, its no big deal. A nice healthy safe and manly attitude about their bodies. Once the little guy had a pimple on his scrotum and asked his big brother to look at it because he was scared what it was. People who get all stressed about men being men and boys being boys and boys trying to become men need to get their homophobic metro-sexual nonsense under control. Males bond being males together. The little queen in the Army who wont shower with the others is quickly straightened out or kicked out. Its perfectly OK to shower with your son, I encourage it. Makes u closer, you share a bond, you eliminate the last secret. Boys who are close to their fathers grow up and do well. Mine have and I dont regret once being there as they became men.