Meeting with the minister...?

We are having the minister and his wife over for dinner to discuss our wedding. The minister is my fiance's cousin, but I have never met him. Neither myself nor my fiance are religious perse...we are holding the wedding at his family's church to honor his mother. When it comes to discussing the... show more We are having the minister and his wife over for dinner to discuss our wedding. The minister is my fiance's cousin, but I have never met him. Neither myself nor my fiance are religious perse...we are holding the wedding at his family's church to honor his mother.

When it comes to discussing the ceremony...is there a polite way to say "no hellfire and brimstone"? It will be a southern Baptist wedding...my side of the family are Catholic (from the north)....kinda sounds like a sit-com.

any advice?
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