Well I wasn;t really complaining, I mean I know some women are materialistic, but I know that many aren't and I understand that she doesn;t want the guy to be a bum nor would I want to myself of course. The questions and answers I brought up were not , because of being upset personally, but just pondering about such things that some other women complain about and thinking of it in another sense. I think many women don't feel that way or that they are objectified as well as many guys realize they should have a decent occupation and they should want that out of themselves anyways.
I brought that up to just counter attack such arguments by some women, since men love sex and being desired, which perhaps would like more of, which is the very thing some women complain about and just saying how men would like that more, but don't complain about that and would love to be lusted more for their body than their mind or money or whatever, since many guys, esepcially when young don't really want relationships or serious ones and just want a fun time for the most part.
I agree with John R too as he made a good point. Oh, ok, I was just making sure, lol.