de@r gEntLe m@n,
I agree with you and I will not even feel shy to talk or discuss about on this question, as this is really a very true and serious matter.
I really sometimes myself don't understand such a change of women. While they were young, they used to be entirely a different personality, but as soon as they grew up or as soon as the mothers get a new relationship or tag of this so called MOTHER-IN-LAW, they change.
What I think is that they adapt such a bad,wicked and evil character because they cant imagine their sons getting much more closer to their wives. They start fearing that one day her son will start taking his wife's side and will always stand agains the mother.
I think they even fear neglegence. Mothers might fear that they might get neglected in old-age as their sons might get into the talks of their wife and will leave them alone in their old-age.
So they adopt such a bad character. Always abusing their daughter-in-law, cursing them, saying bad words to them and some even beating and harassing them.
This is really a very serious matter and offence. And I think people should really look forward into such cases and try to go into the depth of this mother-in-law and daughter-in-law issue and try to solve it FOREVER.
But nowadays, what I feel is, as generation is advancing and as world is becoming much more modernized and advanced, people are also getting much more practical. Nowadays people dont have that much of tendency in interfering in other;s life. Especially women is now not giving that much of importance to the poking business which females generally have in their sons matter.
Even mothers are getting much more practical. Before every mother would want to live with their sons. I mean like a joint family. But now I find and see many cases where mothers themselves separate their sons, so as to avoid future tensions and fights.
I think mordernization really play a very important role. As people are really changing with time. And those mothers who are still projecting themselves to be evil, should need a treatment. For such ladies awareness programmes should be done/held so that they can understand today's world and go accordingly to it.
And honestly speaking I too dont have any such wicked or bad plans for my daughter-in-law. I will try to and I am sure that I will become a good mother-in-law so that my future generations would always remember me as a good and kind hearted soul and not a wicked personality, especially my daughter-in-law...that's it.... :) ...tc... sweet dreamz.....bye....
*****EveRy bOy !z mY brOthEr, eXCePT thE OnLy onE fOr mE....*****.
And mother-in-laws now should bear 1 thing that even their daughter-in-laws are not less. They have got much more dangerous and brilliant plans as compared to their mother-in-laws...lolz.......tc....