Why do guys do this?

Ok so I hooked up with a friend of mine a few months ago he is someone I never though I would like in that way ever he use to annoy me and everything elese at first untill I hooked up with him then I all the sudden got feelings for him and he is just about all I can think about. I told him how I feel and he was very honest with me in the fact that he never sees us being anything more then friends ever so I know he does not like me or anything like that thats not my question lol. But when we talked about not messing around anymore because of feelings he told me maybe some where down the road we can do it again lets just leave that one open, that was 3 months ago and we have not done a thing since. Well he is always asking me who im sleeping with now and gets jeaslous of the guys Iam dating at the moment. I just lost over 100lbs last year and when him and messed around I was still bigger now that Iam skinny he acts this way could it be that no im skinny and looking good he may want me?


I mean why all the sudden is he acting this way with me? some people say a guy feels they own you when they have slept with you and they just act that way about you but I dont know about that. I was ok before because he told me he did not like me so I moved on and started seeing different guys and now all the sudden he is acting this way I just dont understand it really any advice would help me a great deal. thanks!

2 Answers

  • Anonymous
    1 decade ago
    Favorite Answer

    the grass is always greener on the other side. grasshopper

  • 1 decade ago

    Don't let this guy use you. Forget him and date someone else. He didn't want you before so he doesn't deserve you now.

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