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I married an American. Inter-racial marriages do have its share of culture shock but it is also a source of fun. Sometimes your fights could end up too funny for one of you to continue. Go see forumosa.com "dating and relationship" section and you guys would get a good idea.
That said, there are many ways people differ. We are different in personality, habits, values, beliefs, experiences, expectation, etc. Racial and cultural differences are only part of it. You need to look at the total picture to see how match you two are. Most westerners love asian ladies, especially after they have some experience dating western girls. I am not sure why. They told me asian girls look better with better values.
And girl, your parents would want you to be happy, don't they??? Part of the job of growing up is to know what YOU want and not worry too much about what anyone else thinks. Take their opinions into consideration, but don't hide behind them and avoid dealing with problems. You are a grown woman and he's a grown man, no in-laws should have the power to control your marriage. When there's a problem, communicate and be flexible. You both will need to make lots of adjustments, heck, anyone getting into a marriage, inter-racial or not, are going to make lots of adjustments.
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