3 1/2 years of chronic constipation for my toddler girl?

My daughter is 3 1/2 years old and has had chronic constipation for her whole life. All her pediatricians I have taken her to all tell me the same thing, more fiber try this laxative try these suppositories, try these enemas. I was able to get her into a specialist and he gave her a barium enema xray which came... show more My daughter is 3 1/2 years old and has had chronic constipation for her whole life. All her pediatricians I have taken her to all tell me the same thing, more fiber try this laxative try these suppositories, try these enemas. I was able to get her into a specialist and he gave her a barium enema xray which came back as normal. This can't be normal. she hasn't had a normal bowel movement since probably her 3rd one as a newborn girl. I have tried changing her diet with more fiber, less fiber, decreasing lactose and all dairy products and even cutting them out completely. I guess the dr's dont' find her constipated b/c she does do what I call "skid marks" in her diaper, it's diarreatic like with sand paper. To change her is a nightmare. Clenches her butt and her legs together, I've tried everything. Does anyone else have this problem or am I really a crazy mom and the dr's have every right to blow me off? Any help is greatly appreciated.
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