make a dude forget about the past and move on?
- 1 decade agoFavorite Answer
Forgetting the past is a part of the healing process. The process has to finish on its own. Best you can do is make them realize what they have in front of them now and not what happ before.
Saying things like "get over it already", "not this again" and phrases of the like do not help. Be understanding, the more talking they do about it...the better. If they don't talk, it just sits in their head manifesting into something bigger.
- 1 decade ago
You can't make 'em, you can hope they do, you can pray for them every night. That's what my man had to do for me.