You seem to be an awesome woman, a great wife and a lovely mother. I admire you for what you are. :-)
It is partially true that you can win or better, retain a man's heart through his stomach. This is not just because the food factor, but, because of the care and affection you give him. Someone who makes nice food put a lot of effort into it and it is made with a lot of care. You will be careful to make things he likes. That helps him love you more, because whatever he wants from a relation is given by you, love and care. That is why we find partners and make relations or marry, to feel being loved and cared for.
I am happy for you. You are doing excellent and you seem to have a beautiful, loving family. I pray to God for your safety and wellbeing.
Take care.. All the best..
Wish you All A Very Happy and Safe New Year...