Can a parent who shares joint legal custody leave the child with a friend to live without the others consent?

my ex-husband has physical custody of one of our sons and i have the other one..well we both have joint legal custody of both the children...he wants to leave the state he lives in and let my son live with his friend in the state he is leaving..he told me i have no say in this because he has physical custody of... show more my ex-husband has physical custody of one of our sons and i have the other one..well we both have joint legal custody of both the children...he wants to leave the state he lives in and let my son live with his friend in the state he is leaving..he told me i have no say in this because he has physical custody of this child..i told him yes i do ..so is he allowed to leave my son in the care of a friend of his to live while he resides in another state and i also live in another state...if he does leave my son with this person can i have him taken out of this home and sent to me since the father doesn't want him to live with him...
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