Should? With love and respect.
However, if my experience has been any clue, that would be the quickest way to lose a woman. I've never been with a girl that I didn't treat with complete respect and honor. I have a great sense of humor, pull out chairs, hold doors, watch my language, treated her family with complete respect, etc. Every girl has left me.
Most have left me for another guy that did one or more of the following: ignored her, insulted her regularly (just once is bad, but this guy repeatedly would do it), was going only for sex and left if he didn't get any within two weeks, beaten her (two of the other guys did this), got her pregnant and then left; and one that not only did not hold the door for her but attempted to pull it shut so that she could not get in.
And the response whenever any one of the girls was asked why she just didn't leave the guy was always the same, because "I love him. I know he treats me bad, but I still love him." Verbatim, not one deviated from that statement in any way.
If you want to keep your girl, I suggest you beat her in the morning and then ignore her until dinner time.
I'm a little bitter, but wouldn't you be?
· 1 decade ago