What is the best place to meet sweet kind girls? I'm tired of party girls.?

It's always the same with them, going out to bars/clubs, wearing trashy slutty outfits, shiny silk pink slutty shirt, short short jean skirt, bleached blonde hair. They're obsessed with reality tv, and celebrity gossip. They have serious alcohol issues, and refuse to quit drinking and "partying", meanwhile they want to be closer to god and not have sex. HUH?!? Exactly.

It's getting real old, real fast, and I've come to terms that i will never understand these women, or be able to reason with them, even in the stupidest arguments, if in a relationship with them.

Where can i meet a sweet kind girl? Library/Book Store? Coffee shop? Mall? CD shop? Where else?

And how do you approach THESE girls, because the party girls you offer a beer and let them run their mouths, enough said. But the sweet girls, this is a new one to me. Help me out.

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  • 1 decade ago
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    Not on YA

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  • Anonymous
    1 decade ago

    you make the kind girls seem like aliens or a new species and i quote "These Girls", don't worry they won't bite.

    You could try by making a conversation for starters, in the bookshop u could say : i've been searching for a book a long time and i can't find it, do u know where i can find it?

    (just choose any book), just make a usual conversation like u normally do when u meet new people.

    U might meet a sweet girl

    at a christmas party or workplace.

    You could meet a sweet, kind girl anywhere to be honest, try the supermarkets aswel or maybe a church, if ur desperste but i don't think u are.

    good luck and all the best !

    marshalminxtk3 xxx

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  • Samlet
    Lv 4
    1 decade ago

    Can't say for sure if this will work for you, but I'm a sweet, kind girl and I gave up on the dating scene in Toronto and instead tried the internet. I went to MatchDoctor which is a free site and went on two dates - the first guy and I didn't hit it off, but the second one is now my husband! We spent a lot of time talking on the net, then moved on to phone conversations, then met in person. Some sweet girls are shy, others just tired of being expected to go to bed with a guy on the first date...

    Maybe this will work for you.

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  • Anonymous
    1 decade ago

    You are exactly the same kind of guy i'm trying to deal with. He's all into clubs and i'm all the nice sweet girl. He finds it hell just to try and talk to me because i'm totally not a party girl and i dont kick it off by beer. See to approach a nice sweet girl is to open a conversation and talk. These kinda girls fall for personalities. Its gona be tough but all what you could do is talk, bond a friendship and hit it off. Show her you're smart, intelligent and funny. And dont ask her out immediatly, she'd think you're up for no good. Good luck.

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  • 4 years ago

    Kindgirls Girls

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  • 1 decade ago

    You approach the sweet girls by asking them to do something with you that doesn't involve partying.

    In terms of finding them, you've already mentioned the good places.

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  • Lynzy
    Lv 5
    1 decade ago

    You have one here! Ha jokes!

    Depends, anywhere kind sweet girls don't just live at those places ;l

    You'll just bump into a girl and like her!

    I hate the way men categorize woman :l

    Source(s): Biology/History Alevel & GCSE Teacher.
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  • 1 decade ago

    Go to church, library, and social quite places. They are most likely to be found there. Most sweet girls carry themselves with great dignity out in public but it is a different story behind closed doors, yet they still repsect themselves. Don't look for them very hard becuase the sweet one will come to you once you stop worrying so much.

    Source(s): It takes one to know one. ;)
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  • 1 decade ago

    Try going to church.

    Im sure there will be nice girls there...

    Yeah and the nice girls don't like to be treated like the hoes do.

    Do not get all cuddly touchy feely with the nice girls...

    Don't use suggestive flirting with them (only hoes or hoe-like girls enjoy the sexual flirting). If they do this, then they are just playing games with you.

    Be nice, talk about yourself....

    Remember, your goal is to get to know them...

    Don't just hang with them in a desperate attempt to get in their pants- have some class.

    Remember, respect her boundries... don't f things up by being too lude or whatever (its a major turn off)

    Good luck man...

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  • 1 decade ago

    Find an activity that you are interested in, join a club or group that focuses on that, and take it from there, slowly. You'll find that the women there are NOT there to be bar-flies and other such. Don't push things, be yourself, let yourself focus on the activity, and things will flow from there. Having a common interest and intellectual level goes a LONG way towards mutual compatibility. The best way to approach? show an interest in their skills and abilities in the hobby or craft, offer admiration for their abilities, ask them questions, let them offer you advice, and take them seriously.when they do. Whatever you do, DO NOT RUSH! Let folks get to know you, and let yourself get to know the folks in the group.

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  • Anonymous
    1 decade ago

    1) Join a club.

    2) Take a class at Lowe's or something.

    3) Ask friends to set you up.

    4) Join a church and become active.

    5) Volunteer at a charity.

    6) Keep your eyes open. She is out there waiting for you to find her.

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