What can my boyfriend take to help with his sexual desire??

What can my boyfriend take to help with his sexual desire??

He is only 25 years old, and his desire for sex has drastically declined. We both feel worried, and he doesn't have insurance with his new job yet, so going to the doctor is out of the question. Are there any vitamins or anything he can take to help him??

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  • 1 decade ago
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    While there is some medications and such out there, alot of it I believe to be a more mental ailment then anything. Has his drive started declining around the holidays? Stress can do that... and with the whole thought of what to buy this person, who to buy for next, and not having enough money for either can definitely put a strain on both the mind body and soul.

    If it's been a more gradual thing that has been longer than these last couple of months, I'd say look for other stress causing areas. His work giving him a hard time? Have you two been fighting? Family issues?

    There is more than a million and one factors that could cause it, but instead of taking a miracle pill, I'd look for the root of it. Another tip is that us guys are more sensitive than we often let on. If his sex drive has become a problem, you better believe he is beating himself up over it.

    Not assuming you aren't, but make sure to treat this as an "us" problem rather than "his" problem. Try to also find other ways to make things easy on the both of you and best of luck!

  • Anonymous
    1 decade ago

    you cant take any6 vitamins. that are really gonna give him back his sexual desire. but iron will make his blood healthier and then if he isnt regularly working out then he should be cuase that will clear his blood vessels, this will make is to that he get erections easier. and if he really just isnt in the mood well then you should just play to some of his desires. spice it up a little bit. you should have a long talk with him and figure out what his secret desires are. idk maybe he just would like you to dress up for him, maybe talk to him dirty, idk what you do but just spice it up a little bit.

  • 1 decade ago

    I have to agree with Teddy Y he is losing interest in you. Maybe you can do something to light the fire again, but more than likely he his already looking elsewhere if not more.

  • a couple days off of work - and less stress in his life- and he will be fine and dandy!

    he just started his job, he's stressed, that will do it ..and maybe he's tired lately.

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  • 1 decade ago

    maybe he just feels too stressed to get horny or maybe he's bored and need to think of new ideas in bedroom to get him excited. you can go to sex store and there are pills but i don't think they really work. theres viagra but got to go to doctor for that.

  • 1 decade ago

    How about a new girl friend?

  • Anonymous
    1 decade ago

    Its possible that it could partially be you...?Try some sexier lingerie, toys

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