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Anonymous asked in HealthMen's Health · 1 decade ago

I walked in on my son using a blow up doll?

About 2 weeks ago, he got a package in the mail, slightly big box, he aid it was a computer part off of ebay.

Today, his door wasn't locked, and he said he was going to be exersing in his room. I walked in and saw him. He also saw me. I was stunned an stood there for what felt like a minute, probably 10 real seconds. Now, we've been avoiding each other. I don't know what to say or do. Should I apologize, should I shout that he bought an Adult item off the internet. What do I do, it's awkward for all off us, his older and younger brother found out!

By the way: I walked in to give him a class of Lemonade, and to see how he's going. I thought he was exersing to impress a girl so I wanted to know. I didn't expect this at all.

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  • Anonymous
    1 decade ago
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    No Master M, do NOT apologize. Because they will think it's your fault and start giving you the attitude! As some said already just talk him into it, and explain that you understand his needs and you have been there one day.

    OK, maybe not so similar situation, but me and my roomie walked in on each other while masturbating like 3 or 4 times, we just say wow & excuse me and get the *** outta there, you know why, because it's SO normal and everybody on Earth does it but freeks!

    Expect that to happen again. Good luck!

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    I feel your frustration. I have had similar times of what you are going thru with my son also. I just couldnt take the anxiey of taking him to other people anymore. I got the clippers with a nice gaurd on it and do it myself. I would put him in his high chair and he couldnt get out, he would move and cry and scream, but it had to be done. I would let him watch a show he likes, and say he could have a treat when we were done. You have to just take charge and not give up, just do it. And tell him he cant get down till you are done. As time goes by it will become easier. He has to realize it is just a necessary evil and you have to do it. My sone is 5 now and its much better, he just keeps asking if I am done yet. Good luck, stay strong!

  • 1 decade ago

    Master M, one week ago you asked the question "Is this computer good for porn?" (see link below). If both of your questions are serious, it seems that both you and your son enjoys porn. Maybe that could be the beginning of a conversation?

    You also asked the question "My friend raped?":

    "OMG, My friend raped both a guy and a girl. I don't know what happened exactly, but he's crying in my room right now. I can't tell anyone, the victims are too afraid to talk. He's going to uni for law, If I say anything I'll ruin his live. He's 17 and is promissing.

    Is a 15 year old boy and a 14 year old girl with no visible futhure worth my best friend since kindergarten. He's an honours student who when through a death of his uncle, and recently been dumped by his girlfriend. I am the onlyone who knows. What do i do? "

    ...and the question "Can this laptop last a student 4 years?"

    Hmm...

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  • 1 decade ago

    It is much better then catching him having intercourse with a women. How old is he? You most likely have to be 18 to buy such material.

    I would have a talk with him, and ask him how he bought the doll off of eBay, and also ask him why he even bought it. I see no problem with it, but I think it is a good idea to speak with him about it. You can also tell him about sexual interourse

  • Anonymous
    1 decade ago

    Just be sure to wash it before you borrow it. We used to hear stories in the navy of the clap being passed around with the blow-up dolls.

    Edit: Me (and Eirik H) smells a troll.

  • Anonymous
    1 decade ago

    sorry PAULY, i rather get caught with a real women, and not a plastic blow up doll. Difference of opinion.

  • Anonymous
    1 decade ago

    Wow, i'm sorry..that IS awkward! It's normal I think, teenagers can be worried about sexual performance because they are exploring new things. Just talk to him, don't be hard on him because remember he's probably mortified! Ask him if he has any questions about sex and if he is looking to please a girl, remember to tell him to be SAFE.

  • 1 decade ago

    Laugh it off.

    Everybody has their quirks. You, me, everybody. This one is relatively harmless, although its probably a sign he should get out more.

    I'm sure there are things he could catch you doing that are as bad or worse.

  • 1 decade ago

    It is what it is, and whats done is done. No, you dont need to apologize. Its not your fault as he told you that he was going to be excersicing. He should have had his door locked. One constellation is that at least you know he was having safe sex, and theres no chance that he will get her pregnant

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