My girlfriend fantasises about black guys,shoul i be worried?

iv been with my girlfriend for nearly a year now and sex is great.at the start of our relationship she confessed that she finds black guys very attractive and heard they have bigger penis'.this didnt worry me but 2weeks ago we were talking about fantasies and she told me that during sex,because i am fairly well endowed she closes her eyes and imagines a black man instead of me and it drives her insane.is this normal,she has a few black friends who are guys and im not sure what to think.

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  • Anonymous
    1 decade ago
    Favorite Answer

    Well there is a saying 'once you've had black you never go back.' I hope for your sake thats not true.

    I have never been with a black guy and im not really into them. Each to their own i guess.

  • Anonymous
    1 decade ago

    As a girl reading this I can tell you that she will cheat with a black guy if she hasn't already. If she really respected you she wouldn't tell you. It's very hurtful. Everyoe fantasises about other people but I would never ever tell my boyfriend this. some things are best kept to yourself. Your girlfriend sounds immature, dump her.

  • 1 decade ago

    yea i heard that too but i really dont care,i go for the white dudes!!!

    &&well maybee u should brake up and find another girl cuz if she fantasises a black dude instead of u havein sex with her,thats not normal she needs help!!!

    y would she be with u if she like black dudes!!

    <33

    majdal

  • Cool_Q
    Lv 4
    1 decade ago

    That means she doesn't like you if she is thinking of a black guy. Think about it...

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    will you still love someone that doesn't think about you?

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    Will you love someone that doesn't care about you and think that you have any feelings?

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    Are you even going to waste your time on someone that seems that you really don't exist?

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    If yes you'll be heart-broken very soon.

    If no then you'll find a better person. That will make you happy!

    GOOD LUCK!!!!

    Source(s): plaine00
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  • 1 decade ago

    i would be worried..because most curious folks.. tend to find out. however... she should understand... that men come in all colors.. and their private areas come in all sizes. so unless she intends to try allllll black men.. she cannot judge just by one.

  • shiva
    Lv 4
    1 decade ago

    well i really don't know what to say but i think it is not normal at all for u to be with someone you love and she is think of someone else then she does not love you.

  • I think you should be worried you are having sex and your girl is thinking of another guy? what the hell is that.....

  • Anonymous
    1 decade ago

    ahahahahhaha "because i am fairly well endowed", thats what they all say

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