Why do some girls think...?

That playing "hard to get" will make a guy want them more, for me, it is stupid, and makes me confused. I just dont get it, dont you think it would be easier just to go up to a guy and say that you like them back, instead of confusing the grrr out of him? sorry tryin to lay off harsh words, ive been using poop as a substitute but im fine without saying that on here. Lol, anywayyyys, so thanks alot everyone.

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  • lori
    Lv 7
    1 decade ago
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    You're right it is stupid. Men and women play these games and it wastes every ones time! People, if you like someone just come out with it already. If what you are looking for is a good time then just say it and be done with it. Personally, I like the brutal truth. I respect that so much more than the games.

  • Anonymous
    1 decade ago

    some girls are hard to get naturaly. Its not a game. They need to be causious because a lot of guys are players. I know because i have some close guy friends that pretend to be all nice then play those girls. I never got involved with any of those guys because i know better. I'm also just naturally shy around somone i like at first..

  • 1 decade ago

    You know there is always more interest for the thing that you don't get. If you can make yourself mysterious, untouchable then obviously you will be more desired by him. Moreover girls are very much afraid of being refused. So by playing "hard to get" they check the guy if they really want her and then at last she will let the guy have him. This is the cause of playing "hard to get". Did you get it?

  • 1 decade ago

    Sorry Danny boy its not easy to explain and girls are not the only ones who play hard to get - only u boys will play it more on the cool side .... anyway I think it is because if girls play hard to get when we get hurt we can use it as a cover for how hurt we really r inside .... i think - u know me Kiddo i call it the way i c it ... xo hope it helps

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  • 1 decade ago

    It's not really that way. I think that it is part of the nature of girls to be that way. Would you really want girls to play the same role as the guys? To be just all out without any inhibitions?

    Just take it as one of the things that make girls special and it is also a way for guys to actually value girls more. If girls give in easily, it would also be easier for guys to play around and change girlfriends as if they are just changing clothes.

  • 1 decade ago

    i believe everyone has insecurities from past relationships and thats what u call hard to get,,,,,,i guess in a way girls are right to act the way they do after all i mean if u really like this girl I don't think u'll loose hope that quick none the less ure going to mind theyre attitude if after persisting they answer yes........right???

  • 1 decade ago

    lol Dan...cuz it IS true for a lot of guys

    I like a more straightforward girl as well

  • Anonymous
    1 decade ago

    because girls dont want the guy to think they are easy

  • Anonymous
    1 decade ago

    duh!!! u can't just ask a girl that.... and the only reason that we do it is cause if we like a guy than we want to see how much he likes you back!!!! and if he trys even harder to get her attention than she just might make a move! or that is most reason's why! and a girl shouldn't do it if they gots no idea wat they doin! but i do!!!! lol

  • Anonymous
    1 decade ago

    yes..some girls do that...but me,,depends...because sometimes guy are becoming more confident,,,they are thinking if the girl said yes or showing her affection.then they dont have to do anything to please her more.

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