Anonymous asked in Family & RelationshipsSingles & Dating · 1 decade ago

What should i do about a boyfriend that wont stop snapping at me?

he says he loves me, but no matter what i talk about or say he gets mad and raises his voice and tries to "control" every decision i make... and talks negatively about everything, unless it was his idea...he get mad over things that i have never seen any one ever get mad over, and it is becomming every day, every thing i say...I have a business partner and anything we do or come up with he slams doors, twice today, over litterally nothing...everything, and is always shaking his head...he says he doesn't know what is wrong with him...says he doesn't even notice when he raises his voice and snaps at me...

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  • 1 decade ago
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  • inessa
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    4 years ago

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  • 1 decade ago

    How long has this been going on? I ask because it sounds like a recent change. If it is, something has probably precipitated it, something he needs to look at. However, whatever has brought it on, it doesn't mean you have to tolerate it. He is not a toddler, he is an adult, responsible for his own behavior. Tell him you won't put up with it anymore and stick to your word.

  • Bunny
    Lv 5
    1 decade ago

    Talk to him seriously and tell him how much it bothers you. Tell him that he needs to get a better attitude or risk losing you. If he continues on the way he's going, he might start physically hurting you, so do be careful

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  • 1 decade ago

    since you have talked to him about it already and he sez that he dont relize thats hes doing it i would take a tape recorder and let him listen to hes self and that way he will know what he sounds like when hes yelling at you so maybe we will understand how much it hurts and talk about how to change hes ways...

  • 1 decade ago

    Let him know how your feeling and ask him why he has to be that way. Maybe its something that happened in the past that he hasnt let go.

  • 1 decade ago

    easy way...break up look for another one

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