Postcoital tristesse (sadness after sex)?

I was with a man for a few years, and we were madly in love. Actually, we're still madly in love, only he had to move back to his native country, Ireland. Anyway, sex for us, wasn't just sex, it was making love every time, it was carnal and passionate, and amazing. Well it's been about 3 years since... show more I was with a man for a few years, and we were madly in love. Actually, we're still madly in love, only he had to move back to his native country, Ireland. Anyway, sex for us, wasn't just sex, it was making love every time, it was carnal and passionate, and amazing. Well it's been about 3 years since we've been together, though as I mentioned we're still in love. I'm now seeing this other guy, who is great, but every time we have sex I feel so depressed and hurt. Even when I masturbate, I just feel sooo down. What can i do to alleiviate this feeling? It isn't contengant on an orgasm, I have the feeling regardless of wether or not I climax. Suggestions??
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