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Anonymous asked in Family & RelationshipsSingles & Dating · 1 decade ago

i am still in love with my bi ex.. what should i do?

yep, she has a gf, she's bi, she's freaking sweet and sexy, and we broke up a month ago and still friends.. but i haven't meet her since then.. i am scheduled to meet her next week.. what to do so she won't notice that i am still inlove with her.. help please.. thanks a lot.

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  • Anonymous
    1 decade ago
    Favorite Answer

    Hey why hide it? Who cares if she knows you still have feelings for her, what's the big deal?

    ~You'll only make yourself look like an a** if you try and pretend with her the whole time you're hanging out together. She knows you, therefore she'll be able to see right through that fake persona you'll be putting on in front of her. She's not stupid, and I wouldn't recommend treating her as if she was by trying to hide your true feelings for her.

    *Just be honest and let her know that even though you two broke up, you do still have some honest feelings for her and you have to admit that you like her still...a lot. Then just let her know that you understand that she's moved on and what not, but you just wanted to let her know anyways.

    See what I mean? Why lie? You can't deny it.

    *She'll appreciate your honesty, rather than your lies and the front you're going to attempt to put up in order to attempt to keep her from figuring out your transparent feelings for her.

    ......*Good luck, and I hope you two have fun :0)

  • 1 decade ago

    Your not friends, you are friendly. Big difference. What should you do? Move on and stop wasting your time and cancel that meeting and get going with the rest of your life. Have a good one and don't settle for less. . .

  • 1 decade ago

    If you're still in love with her then perhaps you shouldn't see her at all. She's moved on, but you haven't and if that shows it will be awkward to her. You need to break away from her for a bit to get over her.

  • ?
    Lv 4
    5 years ago

    this could be a tricky one. i've got dealt with some guy or woman who became right into a thoroughly nightmare (bi polar additionally).....yet i think of it became into because of the fact she could circulate on and stale of her drugs. It became into not something i could ever opt for to could journey lower back! i could get a 2d and nil.33 opinion ab out "wanting interest from men being area of her ailment".........on condition that whilst is that a license to cheat on your significant different? there's a reason is remains there, previous loving her. He has to look at why he's staying (as nicely the loving her area) and notice what it rather is in HIM that makes him opt for this occasion. it rather is honorable to not opt for to make certain some one you like fail, or injury themselves, yet having pronounced that, there is taken under consideration one of those element as permitting a guy or woman. besides the reality that it rather is hard, helping some considered one of their illness in ordinary terms keeps them from turning out to be into the subsequent point of who they're meant to be.... there's a great line between permitting and actually helping those you like. He has to take an prolonged, perplexing, distinctive seem at himself, his spouse and his concern and make what he feels is the ideal determination for ALL in touch. i opt for to advise that he pray to God for education. good luck.

  • 1 decade ago

    If you are really that in love with her still, she will notice. Plus, women's intuition...we always know. You can still be her friend, and support her in her new relationship. If you can't do that, then be easy on yourself, and stay away from her so that you don't torture yourself being around her.

  • Anonymous
    1 decade ago

    Be honest with her and tell her your feelings. Its better letting her know than keeping it and seeing her in the arms of someone else. You'll never know...she might actually still love you back.

  • ?
    Lv 5
    1 decade ago

    Buy some binoculars, night vision goggles and some sort of mustache, hat and glasses ensemble that allows you to conceal your true identity as you follow her around town.

  • Anonymous
    1 decade ago

    if she doesnt want to get back together

    trick her

    by telling her you think your bi and that your inviting a guy friend

    then when she comes lay it on her

    lol

  • 1 decade ago

    well she might have her preference and will not go out with u again... but its no harm being fren...

  • Anonymous
    1 decade ago

    Tell her. Its the best thing to do...

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