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Loaning from family?

I'm 16 and just got a job and am going to get paid $7.50 an hour. Well, I have this summer program exchange to Japan next summer and I need to have about $6-7000. I'm signing up for a scholarship and financial aid, but am not guaranteed either. If I don't get the scholarship (one pays for $2700 the other I'm signing up for pays for the full thing) or financial aid ($800), I still want to go and the program costs, like I said $6-7000. Since I'm starting work on tuesday, making $7.50 an hour, I won't be able to make that much money by April 1st (I should really have all the money before that though). And I need to send in a check for $610 real soon so I can reserve a place for myself and have better chances of receiving a scholarship and/or financial aid. My mom has bad credit, so she can't take a loan out for me. I'm think about asking my grandparents, who have money, but just are cheap. If I do, should I loan from them or have them loan from a bank and I'll pay them money each month?

Update:

If I do ask them, how should I do it? I don't want to sound rude. My grandpa said if I ever need anything, to come to him, so should I?

Update 2:

I would take out a loan myself but I'm not 18

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  • Elsie
    Lv 5
    1 decade ago
    Favorite Answer

    Go ask Grandpa. Tell him exactly what you explained here. Let him decide whether to get a bank loan or get a loan from them. Just be very straightforward with him. Most grandparents are happy to help out if they see that you are genuine.

  • 1 decade ago

    Just use similar words that you did in your question. Emphasize:

    1. This is EDUCATION, that you'll be intensively learning

    2. This is a once-in-a-lifetime (assuming it really is). That your peer group (not friends) are going

    3. Specify a payment plan. You'll have all the money back by [insert month and year here]

    4. You won't be asking for any more money, even for college

    5. You're working hard to do this by yourself, but you cannot.

    6. Consider dollar-matching. For each dollar you earn, he lends you five (or some other number that makes sense). This will help motivate you.

    De-emphasize:

    1. How fun this will be

    2. That "all my friends are going"

    Don't blurt this out over Xmas dinner. Pull your grandfather (and grandmother?) aside. Look him/her in the eyes and be direct, in private, like a business meeting (which it is).

  • Anonymous
    1 decade ago

    save your 6000 for college instead, college is almost a necessity anymore to be self supporting. Almost everyone qualifies for fin aid to go to college but trust me, it will not be enough... I know you are only 16 now, but you have to start thinking like a self-supporting adult to plan for 4 years of college.

    You will be able to save so much more money now at 16 then you'll be able to do when your a college student with tuition, books, dorms or meal plans to buy.

    Make an adult decision and save for college instead...once you have that degree, you'll be able to afford a trip to Japan without chaperone's, schedules or borrowing from grandparents.

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