Okay this guy sends me nasty text messages????????

Ewww....how should I get him back?

I'm 14.

He asked me to the dance last year and I said no. My mom wanted me to go out with him because his dad had recently died. But I said he was a jerk. My mom wouldnt believe me.

But now he sends me text messages like:

"I want to dual you."

"What are you doin this weekend."

"You have big boobs."

"Your hot and sexy."

I have classes with him. But...its not awkward. I'm used to it. But the texts are getting anoying. How do I get back at him??

24 Answers

  • Anonymous
    1 decade ago
    Best Answer

    well just ignore them and dont reply

  • Joyce
    Lv 4
    4 years ago

    I wouldn't waste my time. What good would it do to text a woman stupid enough not to care if a man let her know he is willing to say what ever to her to make sure you don't find out about her, AKA he doesn't plan on leaving you he just plans on banging her. I would believe she is so hard up for a man she will probably lie to you and say "oh we are just friend" and actually help him cover it up. There are women who do this because they are crazy enough to think it wins them brownie points with the guy in reality it lets them know how desperate they are and will put up with anything. The only decision you need to make is to stay and put up with his bs or leave. The truth is some women are desperate enough for a man they accept being used and don't feel they can do any better you can't reason or negotiate with low self esteem ppl and their madness. ADD ON- Be sure to do what's best for you don't take advice that maybe coming from a bad place for example Dolly... Where in her letter does she say her kids are boys? Seems you maybe thinking from a personal place. You shouldn't boost someone to do something because you are going threw something bad.

  • 1 decade ago

    Tell him to stop doing that or tell your mom and show her, you'll probably get your phone number changed. Don't try to get someone back that's bad listen to me I'm 14 too. And no I am not a nerd I am a bad influence but I don't want others to be like me, but I'm still a nice girl.

  • 1 decade ago

    Don't read his messages and don't bother to pay attention to him. Be friendly but serious when you're with him so that your classmates know that the problem is not you. Tell your mom on the way he's treating you and show her the messages.

    That will be enough.

    Good luck!


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  • 1 decade ago

    Best to ignore him.. If he thinks what he is doing has no effect on you he will eventually give up.

    If you do something in retaliation it will only encourage him to do more.

    You might try going by the store that you got your cell phone from and ask if you can block his number from texting you.

  • Anonymous
    1 decade ago

    Ignore him. But if youve have been doing so for a while save his messages and show them to an adult. Not just any adult but someone who will believe you and do something about it. It is harrassment and a crime so he will get in trouble as long as you have told him to stop.

  • Anonymous
    1 decade ago

    i used to get these weird texts from someone saying . . . .fancy a s**g it was nastey so i told my sister and it turned out he was 22 and im 13 eww i think you should name and shame him inforunt of loads of people and then they will all no what a jerk he is and it should stop ohh and sorry to hear about your loss

  • Anonymous
    1 decade ago

    Tell him you wouldn't go out with him if he was the last man on the planet, lol. Then just ignore his messages.

  • 1 decade ago

    Don't lower yourself to his level. Let him know that you don't appreciate the comments and if he continues you will have to let your parents and teachers know. If he continues, do exactly that. Talk to your Mom and teacher and explain the situation. I'm sure they will stop then. Good luck!

  • 1 decade ago

    Just keep the texts you get and show your prinicpal, because if it's making you feel akward he definitely shouldn't be doing it. If you show the principal things he's writing, he'll definitely get in trouble for it.

    I hope he stops.

  • 1 decade ago

    Two things - block him, and do NOT let think that these messages are bothering you...

    As soon as he realizes that his childish behaviour is NOT getting a reaction, he'll get bored and bother someone else ;);););)

    Source(s): By "getting him back" - you're only giving him a reason to continue what he's doing (and to do it MORE OFTEN)...
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