Are you in a messed up relationship because of your kids??

Why?

Is that just a cop-out?

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  • abc
    Lv 7
    1 decade ago
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    are you kidding me? no child is responsible for his/her parents have a messed up relationship.........

  • 1 decade ago

    I WAS in a messed up relationship because of the kids and each of us have been half out the door because of the kids. A month ago we decided to end it. Then we both realized what idiots we were and confessed our love for each other and committed to each make changes.

    I am a better man now because of the changes. My wife is a better woman and we are like newlyweds.

    Our relationship has never been better!

    Do not give up. Staying for the kids is not a cop out it is a committment.

  • Anonymous
    1 decade ago

    My stepson moved in a while ago and he put a lot of stress on me. And that of course caused stress between me and my husband. But we came together as a couple once he saw how manipulative his son really was. It was painful for my husband. But I helped him through it!

    But then again my stepson went back to live with his mom!

    You just have to pull together as a couple and not blame each other!

    Good luck!

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