A few questions for you: I'm thinking you failed to mention some details. How about that little detail that you're living in HER house on land SHE owns independently of you? How about the fact that she made it clear to you 4 years ago that she had no interest in marrying you or anyone? How about it that you tried to force an engagement ring on her this July past and she hit the ceiling because you either aren't paying attention or just have no respect for her wishes? How about it that you're manly reaction was to stomp away and pout for a few days? How about it that she asked you to please move out of her house the same month and you promised you would? How about it that she even helped you look for an apartment/house just to get rid of you? How about it that one of the major reasons she wanted your butt out of her house is that you're a slacker and weren't taking care of bills INCLUDING those stupid 10 acres of land? How about the fact that she asked you to just take her name off the paperwork for the land and she would call it square? She wasn't asking you to sell it and give her half, she was asking you to remove her from ownership and financial liability on anything associated with you hoping you would just take a hike. How about it that you BOTH put that land up for sale and now you're waffling and YOU want to build your own home on it and are probably telling everyone the two of you are building a house together?You aren't effed over, you're effed up. How about your sudden interest in and denial of porn she found in her house hidden in a kid's video? What? You say burglars broke in, watched a porno video, downloaded the same on your computer and then left? The burglars didn't take the TV or the computer, they just watched a little porn with the freaking pitbulls and doberman who live in the same house? Good God, no wonder she wants you gone. You're spineless. You have all the tactics of a little girl. You have no respect for her wishes and clearly none for yourself. You can pretend to be a love struck puppy and total victim all you want. Maybe you don't know any better. You should slap your parents for that. You don't love her or yourself enough to go away with a little dignity. You don't have the balls to admit to yourself, your friends or your family that your relationship is over and YOU are the reason for it falling apart. You've established that your word isn't worth crap and now you're posting this boo hoo BS thinking some total stranger is going to give you relationship advice? How big an idiot are you? Wait - I don't even want to know my choices on that one. No one cares about your manufactured tale of woe. You're a liar and a fool. And you bring up your absent sex life? Who, in their right mind would even consider having sex with a pathetic loser like you? Find someone who isn't wise to the lying sack of crap you are and go for it. But don't get too close. Once they know you, they'll dump you too. Grow some stones pal, and go away fast.
· 1 decade ago